Be Gentle and Take it Slow
Some people like it rough and messy. However, first time sex should be performed with patience and gentleness. This eases the feelings of discomfort while allowing partners to really understand what sets them on fire. At the beginning, try to keep up with your partner’s pace but gradually climb onto more intense and sensual pleasures. You can also try different positions and use lubricants to numb the discomfort. If it hurts that she can’t take it anymore, relax and cuddle. Listen to some soothing music or play around until she is fired up again.
Follow these tips to reduce pain during first time sex and you will have a better and memorable experience.